Dear amai, makadii? I am a married woman aged 39, and I am a mother to three daughters. I do not want to talk about my marriage because it is a very bad union. I think we just keep trying for the sake of our children.
Our TV and fridge were seized. My husband had put these items down as collateral for an undisclosed loan that he took. I have no idea what he used the money for and how we are going to recover our property. I am very desperate I do not know what to do.
Response
I am well and thank you for asking. By stating little about your marriage, you said a lot because I read in between the lines. You both need to work on your communication because it is not good to continue just for the sake of the children. Children who are brought up in such scenarios suffer a lot even in adulthood.
Your husband seems like a very irresponsible person. I cannot say much about him because he is not the one who has written to me. I advise you to not involve yourself directly with the people who took your property. It is dangerous and they may have you arrested.
Tell your husband that if he does not explain his actions, you will be left with no option except to go to the law enforcement agencies and make a report about your seized possessions. I think it is safer that way and it will get him talking. I wish you all the best.
