Multi-award-winning journalist Hopewell Chin’ono has ignited a thought-provoking discussion on social media, cautioning against the influence of party-centric social circles.
In a recent Facebook post, Chin’ono emphasiSed the importance of meaningful networking for success.
Chin’ono stressed that partying in affluent areas like Sandton or Sam Levy may not provide young women with valuable connections.
Instead, he advocated for surrounding oneself with inspirational and supportive individuals who foster personal growth and professional development.
His message highlighted the significance of intentional networking, suggesting that successful people often achieve their goals through nurturing meaningful relationships.
Chin’ono’s words of wisdom sparked a lively debate, encouraging readers to reflect on their own social choices and priorities.
Here Reads Chin’ono’s Post:
“Friday Reflections.
Pray that you are not raising children who end up like this in Sandton or Sam Levy.
Most successful people achieve success through their network.
This is not the kind of network that offers anything meaningful to young people!
The people we associate with and the things we do can define us for a lifetime.
If you are a young person reading this, aim higher than this.
Do not become part of the bar or nightclub furniture, that person who is on a first-name basis with the nightclub bouncers.
Don’t be a baddie, be a respected young lady who has a plan for life beyond this kind of meetings.
Rather than frequenting bars and nightclubs and becoming a regular fixture in that scene, strive to expand your horizons and seek out diverse and meaningful connections.
This can involve engaging in activities that contribute to personal growth and development, such as volunteering, joining community clubs and organisations, and attending workshops and networking events.
Be in a group of girls that will say;
“This Friday we are all meeting at Tanya’s and we are all going to help each other apply for university scholarships and hang out with one or two mentors.”
Instead of thinking which dude will buy you booze this weekend while you dance barcadi and are being filmed, videos that will appear when you are older.
If you don’t fix up your life at this age, you will one day end being that aunt that fathers don’t want their daughters to associate with because of your past record.
Partying is ok, but it must not be your way of life, something you are known for!”
