Controversial social media influencer Shadaya Knight recently shared his opinions on Desmond “Stunner” Chideme’s lifestyle, going as far as calling him a loser.
Taking to X, formerly known as Twitter, Shadaya said in today’s society, it is not uncommon to encounter people who measure their worth based on their s_exual conquests.
He said a man’s legacy should be built on more substantial foundations, such as personal growth, purpose, and meaningful accomplishments.
Shadaya wrote:
HERE’S THE THING: This man right here is the definition of a loser. Now in his 40s, pushing 50, nothing to his name, except clothes. Ruined his music career, a great legacy he could have left, all ruined because of lust.
All he has to his legacy is, I slept with some of the hottest women. Don’t get me wrong, men are polygamous by nature, but at the same time – a man cannot build a strong legacy if he enjoys pulling down many pants.
Surely, in a man’s teen’s years, s_ex may look like something to brag about. But not when you’re in your 30s going up. You can’t be in your senior years & all you can brag about is women you’ve slept with. There’s no trophy to sleeping with countless women.
S_ex isn’t an achievement, it’s a reproductive/pleasure act. And it doesn’t define manhood, it is but just an aspect of a man’s life. Don’t become addicted to sleeping with multiple women, thinking it will fulfill you. You become nothing more than a slave to s_ex.
The dopamine rush, fades with each new “conquest”, which is why a man who makes sleeping with women his only focus is miserable.
According to Shadaya, a lack of s_exual discipline can have detrimental effects on various aspects of a man’s life, including his financial stability.
Many individuals may know of men who were notorious for their promiscuity but ended up with nothing to show for it in the end. He added,
The inability to have s_exual discipline is the quickest way to poverty. You probably know many guys who had a reputation of sleeping with women but have nothing to show for in the end. Just beer talk about how they used to run the streets.
And with the way s_ex has become cheap & easy to get, it should never be something to brag about. Modern women whily nilly let any man smash without a care of consequences.
Once the pursuit of p_ussy is replaced with something more productive like purpose, business, hobbies, working out etc the results are much longer lasting & fulfilling.
As a man choose a path of chasing purpose not p_ussy. Rather catch the bag than a new body. Learn OR perish!!!
HERE’S THE THING: This man right here is the definition of a loser. Now in his 40s, pushing 50, nothing to his name, except clothes. Ruined his music career, a great legacy he could have left, all ruined because of lust
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