A newlywed wife has taken to social media to share her struggles with marriage, particularly lamenting the pressures of excessive intimacy.
Her candid remarks, shared in a currently trending post on X (formerly Twitter), have sparked a heated discussion among users.
In her post, the woman detailed her experiences since tying the knot, noting that her husband frequently seeks intimacy and reacts negatively when she declines his advances.
She expressed her frustrations, saying, “Since I got married, my body hasn’t had any rest. When you say no, they frown and won’t talk to you all day. But the day you say yes, you’ll suddenly become the sweetest mango on the tree.”
She continued, “Marriage is sweet, but this constant desire for intimacy is one of the hardest parts. Whether you’re well or not, in the mood or not, as long as ‘boss’ is in the mood, you’ll have to please him.” The sentiment resonated with many, as she reflected on the immense pressures she feels in her new role.
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Her comments were accompanied by a video that quickly gained traction, prompting numerous reactions from concerned and opinionated users in the comment section.
See reactions and post below
Ms. Sweet Soul the Writer: “Omo, what won’t people do for clout on social media. People be acting like they fell from trees. If you lack self-respect, at least respect your husband & family members & keep some things private. Eh.”
@ArakiJohn3: “Calm down, you will soon be begging for it and you will understand. You are obviously new in the marriage.”
@curator_hub: “Now someone has finally come out to speak for the voiceless.”
@ozmoneyyy: “Every gender has what they go through; men’s pockets never rest either.”
@sulucious: “Don’t worry, your husband will soon tire and you’ll be the one begging.”
@Sasky_Mali: “Who dey marry all this kind one sef? Must you do makeup, set ring light, wear a dress, to talk about your marital sex life??”
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