Award-winning musician Cassper Nyovest took to Instagram on Wednesday to share valuable advice about tlof tlof.
In his message, Nyovest addressed men directly, urging them not to hastily engage in relations with every attractive woman they encounter.
The “Solomon” rapper explained how men often miss out on meaningful connections because they are solely focused on the cookie.
Cassper Nyovest suggested that the impulse to pursue tlof tlof can overshadow the potential for establishing genuine connections. He mused that sometimes, our attraction to someone might be a sign from a higher power, indicating that this person could be a supportive friend in times of need. However, such opportunities are often lost when relationships are solely driven by physical desires, and they tend to fizzle out once the initial goal is achieved.
“We lose out on a lot of beautiful experiences, a lot of beautiful friendships because we want to have s_x with every attractive woman that we meet. We wanna have s_x with every woman who is interested in us or who wants to have a conversation with us which we find interesting or attractive and we don’t know how much we lose out on.
For instance, you meet someone at a party, or a library or wherever and you are attracted to her. Something is attracting you to her. You might think that it’s only her looks but it’s probably not. It’s possible that this person was sent to help you with something in your future.
And you meet her and you guys have s.x and a few weeks later you guys don’t speak anymore because you guys have concluded your relationship to be a s.xual one. A few weeks later you would go through something and not know that this person that you met was actually supposed to be the person that helps you, the vessel that helps you get over this huddle,” Cassper Nyovest said.
Cassper Nyovest illustrated his point with a personal experience where someone he initially wanted to just have tlof tlof with ended up being a significant source of support during a challenging time.
Naturally, Cassper Nyovest’s comments on tlof tlof sparked mixed reactions. His comments on relationships sparked mixed reactions online. Some agreed with his perspective, praising his mature outlook and understanding of the complexities of human connections. Others disagreed, arguing that personal battles are usually faced alone and that women couldn’t assist men in any way. Below are some of the reactions:
greybtc:
I think it’s inconvenient for a man to think that there’s a woman out there who can “help you” in some way. The streets are the streets. The battles you shall fight alone.
aokthesuperstar:
Very relatable👏🏾👌🏾 and mind you, ladies are more connected than men and can help us with a lot of things, it’s not all about smashing… mature intake Nyovi🔥👏🏾👌🏾😂
mthokozisi_sz:
No you must chop Nyovi! You must operate the mammies !! 😂
prince_mzizi:
Discernment and sexual discipline as a man goes a long way.
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