A TikTok user, identified as Good Joseph, has sparked a debate among netizens with his recent advice urging men to reconsider spending nights at women’s residences. In a video shared on the platform, Joseph cautioned against the practice, citing potential risks.
He advocated for a more considerate approach, suggesting that men contribute to the household by assisting with expenses such as groceries or engaging in gestures to enhance the host’s happiness.
“Stop dictating and take care of smaller things,” Joseph emphasised, urging men to adopt a more accommodating attitude towards their hosts’ offerings.
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While Joseph’s message found support among some TikTok users, particularly those who echoed his views on reciprocity and consideration, others, predominantly male, expressed dissent. They argued that there was no inherent issue with spending nights at a woman’s home, regardless of whether or not material contributions were made.
The reactions underscore the varied perspectives surrounding dating norms and gender roles in contemporary society, highlighting the ongoing discourse on relationships and expectations within them.
@Miltonwanyonyi said: “Mimi hulala uko daily bro.( I sleep there daily bro)”
@Rinfixy added: “I have been working the whole week I have come to rest for two days.”
@Nanalynnechao confessed “I am tempted to tag someone .”
@Mutheu her majesty reacted ” Red flags.”
@User23261722137522 asked: “How can I post it without posting it?.”