Fashion designer Hafsat Sani is raising eyebrows with her bold stance on infidelity, directing her comments towards married women who hold mistresses accountable while overlooking their husbands’ roles.
In a series of candid posts on Instagram, Sani made it clear that the primary blame for cheating lies with the married men themselves.
“Your husband is just as accountable as your rival—if not more so. Women often boast about their relationships while actively trying to destroy the other woman,” she expressed.
Sani emphasized that if a husband is unfaithful, the blame should not fall on the woman he is cheating with. “The choice to ch3at belongs to him; he is the one being disloyal,” she stated firmly.
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She pointed out the irony in how many women excuse their husbands’ behavior by attributing their infidelities to outside influences.
“Men can be clever in many aspects, but when it comes to being responsible, it’s suddenly a case of another woman manipulating them,” Sani continued.
“You’re giving too much credit to superstition and external factors. The truth is, your man knows exactly what he’s doing; he’s simply acting selfishly without regard for the consequences.”
While Sani reiterated that she does not condone the actions of mistresses, she emphasized that husbands must share in the blame.
“If you want to confront the other woman, make sure you hold your husband just as accountable, if not more so,” she concluded.
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